Re: How do you deal with twin jealousy?
I don't think my son (second born) is a push-over. I just think some of the things that matter to her don't matter to him. If he's thirsty he'll drink out of the pink or green cup (where she'll only drink from the pink). He doesn't care which side of the cart he sits on. If I hand each one a cookie and she holds it out demanding he take it he'll switch cookies with her. But if he is playing with his favorite toy he is going to put up a fight if she comes after it.