DH and I were not in agreement, but he kept it from me. I thought we both were trying for a baby and he just liked the perks of trying.
It took a heart breaking miscarriage earlier this year for him to finally understand how important a large family is to me. It almost split us up before marriage counseling helped us work through it.
Anjuli, recently separated mom to Bubbles, my 5.5 year old wild man, Squidge, my almost 3 year old daredevil, and Lou, my 7 month old newbie