Re: Living together before marriage. Yay or nay?
I say it's absolutely imperative for a couple to live together with a little one coming along, if ONLY so that the couple can both help each other in caring for the child.
My partner and I have lived together for 7 years and have an almost-2 year old. We are not married. Nor are we intentionally "unmarried". We're just a loving couple raising a family together. [And yes, now that we have a little one EVERYONE assumes that we're married.. but that's another thread topic there.]