She wasn't even sort of being snarky. There is a huge difference between a difference of opinion and flaming. You did better than many in regards to rf so just feel good about that and don't worry about if someone may criticize
Originally Posted by kaimon
So instead you'll get snarky over the fact that I was hesitant to post my response knowing that it would be different than others? ouch.
Yes I read the other responses. I am not debating them. I am not suggesting that this is a group of horrible people. I posted my response knowing that there will be a lot people in here who would not make the same decision. I very recently turned my son, I debated it long and hard and like most major parenting decisions it came with some uncertainty. Maybe 'flamed' was the wrong word, but I honestly expected someone to suggest alternatives to turning him, which given *my feelings* about the step I just took would feel like criticism and flaming.
The only time you should look in your neighbor's bowl is to make sure that they have enough. You don't look in your neighbor's bowl to see if you have as much as them.