In general use whatever works.. honestly, I think it has more to do with the washer and the water (amount, hard or soft, etc). I am using a HE washer now and it's driving me insane. Diapers are a little different than washing clothes in that they need to get good and clean and ALL the soap has to get rinsed out, but the basics still apply. Hot water, detergent, rinse.
anne, the wahm formerly known as zephyrclothdiapers (now retired) + josh (the dh) = ds1 06/04 & ds2 09/10
~ never forgetting our ^i^ 08/03
done biologically, working on adopting from foster care