10-01-2012, 12:15 PM
Join Date: Jan 2008
Re: What is the REAL chance of miscarriage...
This is my 7th pregnancy. I have 3 living children...one was a very complicated pregnancy and he turned out to have some health problems even though I was young and the healthiest I had been in my life leading up to/during my pregnancy with him. I had one miscarriage after my 2nd child, and 2 miscarriages after my 3rd child was born. I've struggled a lot with fear during pregnancy, and it is still a battle each day to some degree. I've adopted a motto this time around...
"what will be, will be"
It reminds me that I am not in control...and that I'm doing everything I can to be healthy and have a healthy baby...but in the end, it's not in my control. I also remember that after having a difficult pregnancy and sick baby (he's doing pretty great at age 4 though!), I know that I'd go through it all again in a heartbeat just to have my son....so basically my mottos are "what will be, will be" and "I'll take whatever baby God gives me...even a sick one "
:hugs" to you!! Hoping that things will work out for you
mama to my
never forgetting my tiny babies 11/13/09, 4/12/2012, 5/24/2012, 4/22/2014
hoping for another