Re: Baby #2 and registry
I would suggest a "food shower" - where everyone brings you a frozen meal. Even if you have to go buy a freezer on Craigslist to store it, it is totally worth it! Or put right on the registry "restaurant and grocery gift cards would make a great gift!" and keep the baby stuff to a minimum. I also don't see a problem putting a car seat for your older child on there, or other down-the-road essentials.
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