10-03-2012, 10:15 AM
Join Date: Sep 2007
Location: MB, Canada
Re: When did you tell?
I worry that this will be my parents' reaction this time, so I haven't said anything yet. Since we lost Elli, they've told me repeatedly that they "can't handle that again", and asked me "never to do that to them again". Yup... cuz I totally chose for that to happen, just to hurt them.
Originally Posted by mapleleaf88
My mom yelled at me and made me cry when I told her I was pregnant with my baby. She literally said "how could you do this to me?!" Like the whole reason we got pregnant was to spite her.
We only tell most people once they are sure enough by looking at me to ask!
We told MIL at 6-7wks, cuz she was moving here and staying with us then. We told our good friends at 10wks, cuz she knew by looking anyways.
Like I said, we haven't told my parents yet... not sure when we will. They don't live near, only visit once a year or so (and just were here in the summer). I may not say anything until after the baby is born - seriously considering thing - or if they happen to visit while I'm still pregnant.
We haven't actually told our kids yet either - though I'm sure at least the older 2 know what's going on.
Things are very different this time around for us.
Momma to R (12)
, Z (10)
, I (8)
, L (4)
, P (2)
& J (Apr 14, 2015)
remembering Elliana Lucy (2.7.12)