Re: TTC 30+ Oct. 1-Oct. 7
I'm so sorry you've been having a hard time as well. I hope you get your BFP very soon also. I hate been older plus my SIL is a butt to me an hates me. I've even been told you've got 2 children you don't need anymore an here my SIL has said to us a lot of horrible things an also said to us she wished our children was never born an other things. We don't have no support from family as they don't know we;re trying again as if did they would put us down. So we're alone on trying again.
Originally Posted by 812ajack
Sometimes people can just be quieter on this forum. I've read your posts and was waiting to see what your tests came out so as to see if you had to have surgery or not. Right now I'm personally not saying a whole lot to anyone except the occational Congrats on the bfps cause really there isn't a whole lot going on positive with me right now (on the TTC part of it anyways) I know you are dreading AF coming but me I didn't get AF and am now dreading having to enduce myself to cycle and meds etc.. Its all hard for a lot of us. I don't have a lot of people comment on my stuff but I know when I MCed last month everyone was supportive and helped me through it. So just know while we may not comment every time we are listening. I know I personally read everyones post (in this thread not in every thread
) whether you are new or not so new. I may not comment every time but am reading them and am here.
I'm 2 days away from being off progesterone- so hopefully I'll be able to finally start my next cycle.
About the older people comments. I agree (and have to say I hope I am never this way) that a lot of them can be insensitve. I remember I had a lady who lived across the street from me when I was in my 3rd year of fertility and I saw her outside and she walked up to me and asked where I was going so fast? So I told her I was going through fertility trying to have a baby cause we were having some difficulties and she said "I couldn't have kids and you just need to except that you won't either" and walked away. I cried all the way to the MD office that day. After 3 years I was feeling very defeated and certainly didn't need to hear that from anyone at that point
. I did have the satisfaction of seeing her in the pharmacy a year later when I was 9 mth PG with my son and just smiled