Re: suede cloth sensitivity?
For my son his looked like a sun burn and it felt warm to the touch. Also it made his skin really dry. He would also get welts sometimes. He can do fleece inners if I don't do them back to back and he can't do any stay dry overnight as his skin can't tolerate it for such long exposure (he is 3 1/2 and sleeps 12 hours) so we now do a disposable at night for him because he can't do stay dry and at 3 1/2 he also won't stay asleep if he feels soaked (don't blame him but I also hate waking up 3 times a night to change his diaper and all 3 kids share a room so i also don't want to disturb them)
The only time you should look in your neighbor's bowl is to make sure that they have enough. You don't look in your neighbor's bowl to see if you have as much as them.