For my daughter, we got her and grandma tickets to the Nutcracker. She will get a Slinky and ballet shoes for dress up from us besides. I'm also running a Strawesome co-op soon and I'll probably get each of my kids a fun straw.
I understand that people get "something to wear" but we don't pass that as a gift. Clothes generally bore my daughter to tears and the grandmas already do that.
But we are going way minimalist this year. My kids already have either too much or close to it of every category, and they don't need a thing.
Danielle, Nick, Gigi ('08) and William ('11)