Re: santa or not to santa?
We do Santa Claus. He usually brings one gift per child and then a family gift (usually a game or something we can all do together) and he fills their stockings. We treat it like so many other traditions and stories that have been passed down. It's part of our family culture. My DD wants to keep believing, but I can see her logic winning out over it all, and I will not go out of my way to convince her. To me, it's not about the lie, but about the magic.