[peaches330]

I'm glad to know that I'm not the only mom who doesn't feel comfortable with this. Makes me feel better to know that I'm not crazy As for the questions, I do think that my DD could handle it. She is pretty independent and has a really easy time at bedtime. She does good at grandma's house. I think it's more an issue with not knowing the mom well myself and my husband doesn't feel too confident in her parenting so I think we are going to pass. I will let the mom know that we discussed it and just don't feel that she's ready for sleepovers at this point in time but that we can set up a play date. Maybe that way I can be able to go over there and get to know her and see how she runs things in her house so I can figure out if I will allow her to go over there in the future.