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Old 10-07-2012, 10:11 AM   #46
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Re: S/O Mamas that circed, do you feel judged?

I absolutely feel judged on DS for circ'ing.

Oddly enough, I was also super judged IRL for pushing to NOT circ DS2. The only person IRL who would back me up was my brother's MIL, who did not circ her son. Everyone else was quick to jump on why I just HAD to circ him. DH actually blamed the mamas here on DiaperSwappers for my wanting to leave him intact. Which, kinda, is true. My eyes were opened way up by all the mamas on here and it made me not want to circ. I lost the battle and we got DS2 circ'd but I was armed with enough info found on DS to insist on pain medication, nursing immediately afterward, etc.

So, really, it's 6 of one and half a dozen of another. Somewhere, someone is going judge a parenting choice you make. The mamas here are just more vocal about telling you why you're wrong. LOL
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