Re: santa or not to santa?
We do Santa. I love Santa, and I love watching kids believe in the magic. We have an Elf on the Shelf, they get their pictures taken with Santa every year, and the kids go to bed with an empty tree and wake up to all of their presents. We don't go overboard- Santa usually brings the one gift they are begging for and we give them 3-4 more.
At my FILs house, even the grown ups still get Santa gifts.
After struggling with PCOS, IF, and multiple miscarriages, my family is complete.
DS 2005 and DD 2007