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Old 10-08-2012, 09:12 AM   #32
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Re: Do you ever question your spouse/partner?

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Originally Posted by Psychomom View Post
All the damn time! lol

He usually ends up agreeing with me. His negative reactions to the kids are usually because he's cranky, tired, etc. Then he realizes that he's made a mountain out of a molehill and will apologize to the kids. He did it just this morning. Same with me.
yup. this is us.

And he keeps me in check as well.

Neither of us is perfect at parenting and we help each other through the tough moments.

Also, if I see he's getting really flustered and things are escalating when they shouldn't be, or I notice he's handling something really badly, I'll try gently to step in and help (or take over) but I always try to do it in such a way that I am not bull-dozing over him.

And, I make a point to tell him when I think he handled something really well, too. So that it doesn't seem like every time I mention his parenting, it's something negative.
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