Make sure they know about the organization Now I Lay Me Down To Sleep as well. This is a group that will come and do pictures of the family/baby if the worst should happen. We lost a little boy at almost 24 weeks to T13 and they were wonderful! I treasure those pictures!!
As for the other about the midwife, I have no clue but I will be thinking of them!
Susan, laundry doing
, dish doing
SAHM to twins F&J
, 1 year old M, 3 early M/C's and Baby Jack born sleeping 10/22/10