Didn't read the whole thread.
I don't feel judged personally.
Or rather, I know there are very strong judgemental feelings out there on the intact side of things, but I don't take it personally because none of them know me irl or have any real knowledge of my parenting.
I also have seen a ton of defensiveness from the pro-circ side of things on this site, which seems silly to me (as a mom of a circ'd son). I don't care what a bunch of strangers on the Internet think about my sons penis bc it's none of their business. And if the issue is important enough to them to be rude/nasty on the Internet then ohwell.
But I've stayed out of all the debate threads and havent actualy seen any nastiness.