Re: Going pat 41 weeks...really dangerous?
I delivered at 41+3 and my placenta had seriously degraded. I had not had any NSTs yet though. My midwife told me that I wouldn't have passed, and that we should be thankful things went as well as we did.
You've had 2 NSTs though, they would know if your placenta was degrading. I agree with talking with her about why she is being so pushy with an induction.