Re: Selfish with your baby
I viewed people coming over wanting to hold baby as my break, so I could do something else. So I quite happily handed her over to whomever, including letting the odd sweet little old lady hold her when I had to grab something or put on the mei tai again at the mall. Everyone wants to hold the baby! However, that's not to say it isn't completely normal to feel like you always want to cuddle the squish, and feel protective of baby, it certainly is.