Re: Selfish with your baby
I think I offended MIL once but oh well. They were having a house built when DD1 was 3 months old and stayed with us in the interim for about 2 months. I was tired of sharing and spent most of our days playing in my bedroom/TV room upstairs while they were downstairs. One morning she heard DD wake up and while I was getting her changed MIL came in and said "you have to share her sometime today." I said "I absolutely do NOT have to share her." and finished changing her and proceeded to my room for the day.
I also hate when in the hospital and people pass her around and when I ask to have my baby back they say "Oh, you will get to hold her all the time." Well yes, that is because I am the one that pushed her out and she is MINE!