Re: midwife vs. OB WWYD?
I vote for ob. I've toyed with the idea of finding a midwife but it's more because the idea of a midwife makes me feel better. The truth is my ob has been excellent, makes me feel comfortable, and while is happy to perform interventions, he is also very happy to follow my wishes to be intervention free. I think if I switched at this point it's unlikely I'd be as happy with anyone as I am with him so why switch just to get a different label? It doesn't sound like this midwife is a good match for you.