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Old 10-10-2012, 09:09 PM   #38
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Originally Posted by FindingMercy

I will look into that. We haven't finalized.

When I hear of families wanting to adopt and they say they are avoiding foster care or SN or something, I just have to smile. You just don't know with any child what life will be! We were open to SN, thought we were being matched with a baby who would be a premie, he was born full term and healthy, and then these last 2 crazy months...
Im so sorry you guys are having such a hard time! I also wish people didn't have a bias against foster/adopt for this reason! Even bio kids are no guarantee. Just seems like sometimes with domestic infant adoption people either have unrealistic expectations or are mislead purposely by the adoption industry. Obviously not you but just generally speaking.
I, mama to dd A (3-08) dfs J (10/11) and in love with newbie dfd N! (10/13)
hopeful pre-adoptive foster family
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