Re: Does this sound like separation anxiety (sleep)?
Sounds like she's turning into a two year old. I'd set firm boundries now and try to stick with them so that bedtime doesn't become a power struggle. With naps I'd just say play it by ear. Maybe she doesn't need one because she's sleeping 12 hours at night? Some kids stop naps early others continue well into childhood.
hopelessly in love with my US Marine and three little men 12, 7.5 and 4 years<--what! When did that happen?