[KendallMarie]

Originally Posted by Mom2Connor Ugh. I am usually not the one to stress about gaining weight during pregnany (really, I'm not). But I am heavier than I was with DS when I was pregnant, and was working out and slowly losing weight for the 6 months or so leading up to getting pregnant with this baby. Unfortunately, I was only down to 160 (I am 5'6") so I definitely still had some flab. Now, at almost 13 wks, I definitely have a little baby bump but there is enough flab that when I'm wearing clothes you can't really tell if I'm pregnant or just extra chunky. It makes me feel so self conscious! I'm ready to just be more pregnant so it's obvious.

I'm nearly showing... but not quite. I haven't really gained much.... though I'm having some trouble dealing with that. Maternity pants at least make it look a little more like a baby bump rather then chunk today i just wore sized up jeans and i just felt fat all day. Came home and put on mat jeans to go out tonight... I might look more pregnant that I am... but at least i don't feel fat.