I guess half of my post disappeared! It was supposed to say submissive and created equal are two different things. God sees us as equal and a team, but the husband is the head, seeing as how you can only have one successful leader. As for the decision, my hubby is the head, but things like that don't go without a discussion ;-). Just my thoughts!
Wife to K
homeschooling mom to A(2-24-02)
and our newest addition A(3-11-11)