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Old 10-14-2012, 04:26 PM   #17
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Originally Posted by qsefthuko
As for the child support. He OWES this to his children. He CHOSE to have two families. That is expensive true but his CHOICE. Now he gets to deal with the cost of his choices. I'm sorry I don't seem sympathetic but truth is I am not. I hated feeling tossed between two families. I hated feeling like a financial burden because now he had a whole different family to support. My stepmother made a comment about how hard it was financially for them. Truthfully I couldn't care less. We his children should have been his priority not some other woman. If he wanted his wants to come first he shouldn't have had us. Since he chose to have us and then have a second family on top of that whatever sacrifices he had to make well tough cookies. He cannot have his cake and eat it too.
I could see if he was a dead beat, job hopping and avoiding child support but he pays if even though it's OVER what he should be paying. I don't understand where the attitude comes from in regards to that?

It sounds to me the mom wants it to be her way or no way.

OP, you're a better woman me. If I was dealing with this and she refused to meet in the middle I'd go to court and readjust child support and use the funds to cover the expense of travel to accommodate the ex.
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