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Originally Posted by qsefthuko I was going to add more. But perhaps for me a child who was in the children's shoes it is too personal. My step mama complained as well. My opinion was then she shouldn't have married a man with children. I would say I am sorry you are upset but really my sympathy lies not with you, not with your husband, and not with his ex wife but with the children who are in the middle. He and she had the option of working out their problems. You had the option not to get involved with a man with children. The children had no options what so ever.

i agree with this. i would never in a million years marry a man with kids, i know i would never be able to handle all that is involved. it's bad enough DH has student loan payments