Re: Give me insight please: Former spouses and parenting
Ok, I am a single mom and I did not read the responses, but here is how it works for me. My ex pays very little in CS. It's court ordered from our divorce and has never been changed. So that might cloud my feelings a bit. I don't do any pick up/drop off. I am taking care of these children 6-7 days a week, without a break. I am barely making ends meet as it is. If he wants to see them as the non custodial parent, he can get off his hiney and come see them. HOWEVER, there have been a few times that he has had car issues and I will bring them over to him. I am certainly not heartless. So I have no advice, just telling you how we do things.
Tanya, mama to four wonderful girls, wifey to my favorite guy