Re: Surprise, Planned or Rainbow Baby?
DS was planned (at least by DH lol). We were preventing using NFP. We both knew we were fertile. DH decided weeks earlier (although he didnt tell ME at the time) that we were in a good place to have a child lol! So, DS was not a surprise, not planned (by me), but planned (by DH). But, Id been wanting a baby for years at this time.... I was just waiting for DH to be ready! I just thought that when he was ready, he would tell me BEFOREhand lol!!!
DD was planned by both parties lol! We were NTNP for a month, got a false positive (chemical pregnancy?), and then tried for a month and got pregnant :-). I think we might be done after DD. I originally wanted a large family, but I definitely have my hands full....at least for now :-)! DH has talked about potentially having a 3rd, but that will likely be YEARS from now. We both want a break after DD to just enjoy raising our family :-).
April-Wife to hopeless romantic nuclear submariner DH
WOHM to my rambunctious snuggler DS (08/10)
who was born SMILING.
and DD (2/13) my hero
Last edited by amb2j; 10-15-2012 at 07:32 AM.