Yes, your DH can bring it home - maybe from DSS, maybe from some random stranger that he passes along the way. Vaccination is absolutely no guarantee of protection, you all need to keep your immune systems strong and take care of yourselves. Personally, I would keep up with visitation - it will reduce your stress level which can impact immune function, and a sick kid is no reason to not have visitation with a loving, caring parent.
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