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Old 10-24-2012, 11:27 PM   #18
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Here's my 2 cents. I have had really rotten pregnancies. I get preeclampsia. My placenta abrupts. With my 4th I abrupted and had a uterine infection and my baby died after birth. I was told that having any more kids would be a bad idea. But I wasn't done and my daughter was born in June only 3 weeks early and perfectly healthy.

Every pregnancy is different and since you've only had one pregnancy it's not a guarantee that you'll have the same issues. Bedrest when you have other kids is hard but it's temporary.

As far as giving your daughter all your love, my kids get a different kind of love from each other. They have such a wonderful relationship that I can't imagine them not having that.

It's a hard decision but only you will know what is really right for you.
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