Re: REALLY need suggestions....feel like I'm losing the homeschooling battle :(
What about unit studies? Pick a subject she wants to learn about and base all of the lessons on that. For example: baseball... read about it and its history, write about it or copy a passage out of one of the books you read, math could be figuring out stats and averages or adding and subtracting balls, depending on age it could be really in depth stuff. I know www.homeschoolshare.com has lost of free unit study ideas if you wanted to try it for free. Hope that helps.
C married to D (2002), homeschooling mama to DJ (2003), N (2004), M (2006), A (2008), E (2010), R (2011), Angel Baby I, G (2014), and baby S due 2/2017.