Re: Hurtful comments about family size...
My family is very supportive. Even though most of my generation has chosen to have small families they are all from large ones. They think its wonderful to have a large family as long as its not them I would just get more vocal with your critics and let them know its time to get over it.
Wife to DH 6 yr, Mom to Mono 6/07, Mi'ha 12/09, La & Ta 1/12.
CDing, noVaxing, tandom BFing & BWing, coSleeping, minimalist in training 2100/2012