Re: When did you tell?
First time we told right away at 4 weeks. That one ended in a loss during which MIL and SIL said some ridiculous things that really soured the experience and let us know they could not offer any support when we were hurting. MIL actually said to me, "That's okay since I wasn't ready to be a grandma anyway!"
The last three I told my mom right away but his family have been the last to know around 12 weeks. This time when we announced to them on Skype and MIL literally said,"oh...huh" and then didn't mention it again.
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