Re: Upstate NY FTMs?
If you are relatively close to Bennington,VT (about 40ish minutes from Troy) there is a great store called Earthy Crunchy Mama that does play groups and meetings for moms/dads. They have a Facebook page with updated info and hours. It's a mama-run store, so if there is a family illness they close up shop. You'd want to check that before making a long trip!