Re: Asked to be adoptive parent...
I agree. Odd language. "Getting rid of" generally is a negative way to talk about abortion, but adoption??? Sheesh. Giving up for adoption isn't even an appropriate term! The correct term is placing for adoption or making an adoption plan. Birth control options may be discussed in adoption counseling to see of mom has a plan to have this not happen again, but it certainly isn't the prospective adoptive parents' place to even suggest anything.
A SAHM to four long out of diapers (all used cloth for all or part of their diapering years) and a baby girl currently in cloth part time.