Re: Asked to be adoptive parent...
OP--I hope it all works out well for you! Any chance you could adopt both children, just out of curiosity?
Every state is different, but generall the whole "not living wiht anyone" clause is referring to unrelated adults. It is the state's way of preventing children from being adopted into unstable conditions where the parents were cohabiting but not married and future partners would be coming in and going out of the picture (yes, yes, I know what the divorce rate is and I am not saying cohabiting is unstable, that is just how my state views it). So, here at least, you living with your grandma would be fine. Definitely check with an adoption attorney, though. Are you married? That would probably change it, too.
Last edited by Melinda29; 11-10-2012 at 08:35 AM.