Re: sleep help!
My DD and I coslept with her crib sidecarred to a futon mattress very close to the ground. Could you and your DD move to another location to sleep together? I also slid away from my DD when she was asleep so that I had a bit more space. This was possible on a full-size mattress with her in the sidecarred crib, but was much harder even in our king size bed.
Catherine, mama to Preschooler Girl 9/08, Toddler Boy 3/11, and Twin Girls 2/14!