I would have spoken up immediately at the first sign of it going in the wrong direction. Who cares is she thinks your questioning her- your paying her to his hair the way you want it.
I'm sorry this happened. It is just hair and will grow back. I wouldn't take him back there or ask for a different person. And take in a pic of the hair the way you like it. I find that when they can visually see what you want, it's easier to achieve and no one is dissatisfied.
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