The best think I learned about aspergers was that they do not have a language delay. Their language is usually above average, and formal. They also can speak about a topic incessantly without reading cues from others that they are done listening.
Sensory issues are usually big, along with above average intelligence. They also seem to have one intense topic of interest of which they know everything about.
My ds shows many signs of Aspergers, but it does not affect him negatively so we have never pursued a diagnosis.
My other dd who is 3 has an Aspergers diagnosis (which I think is not correct) and a pddnos diagnosis from another doctor (which i think is correct). She had a significant speech delay and it just doesn't fit with Aspergers diagnostic criteria.
Start with your pediatrician and see if you can get an eval done. Good luck!
Last edited by ktmelody; 11-14-2012 at 10:29 AM.