I thought it may be the same person. I'm so sorry OP and I am not sure except that I would hire an attorney ASAP. You did what you thought was best and it isn't your fault.
Originally Posted by WynneBabies
Ummm, didn't this adoptive mom used to post here? She had an older bio daughter and then went onto to have a bio son too? Horrible. I am so sorry this is happening. I'd try to find out exactly where she is and then find a lawyer familiar with adoption laws and see if you can get a free consult.
The only time you should look in your neighbor's bowl is to make sure that they have enough. You don't look in your neighbor's bowl to see if you have as much as them.