Thanks for all the responses! I had my first midwife appointment today and I am feeling better about things. She was very sympathetic and also had a lot of helpful insight on my situation. I am not going to pursue another OB, though I will still try to get my testing covered by having my PCP order it.
On the even better side, I finally got to hear the heartbeat (140) - and I got confirmation that I'm carrying high and forward: I measured 15-16 weeks at 13 weeks 5 days.
Wife to my best friend
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