Re: pain beyond anything
I silently followed the original thread in SS. I couldn't bring myself to comment.
I am so sorry this has happened to this poor girl. I can't imagine what it must be like to place your child in the arms of someone and trust that they will love her like a daughter. I can't imagine the pain you must feel realizing that never happened. Failure to bond and attachment issues are so incredibly sad. I can't imagine the guilt that must go with that. I could never bear it. My heart goes out to everyone involved in this incredibly sad situation. I do hope that Ella's birthmom is still allowed to be a part of her life. I think that is in Ella's best interest. I really hope everyone is putting Ella first. Poor, Ella.
I want to cry. :-(