I am going to go against the crowd and say that I do think it's wrong. I teach DD to ask nicely for things, why should I be exempt from that?
I asked her whether Mommy and Daddy could have some candy, and she was happy to share. We do the same thing with snacks or meals - *everyone* should ask nicely before taking anything, and accept it graciously.
Wife to my best friend
DD1 (4/15/10) and