Re: Kids at birth?
I've asked DD if she wants to be there, and she does. If it's in the middle of the night, we'll try to wake her up (although she is quite the sound sleeper) but let DS keep sleeping. If it's during the day, I don't care if both kids are there. They've seen me in pain and suffering before and handle it well. DD strokes my arm and tells me it'll be okay. DS just does whatever DD does, lol.