Re: I'm so pissed
Do you both agree on how clean your home should be most days, or who's responsibility particular cleaning tasks are?
Do you both consider how your daily schedules affect the other? Are you both happy with the amount of time you have together? Do either of you have concerns with your tight schedule preventing your kids from having enough unstructured time or preventing them from having enough variety in their day to day lives?
Is he truly so controlling that you are unable to get access to personal birth control if that is what you desire?
Do you have time to talk with your DH about eachothers concerns?