Re: I'm so pissed
I don't think your house is messy so much as cluttered maybe? Perhaps one week of sorting, purging would be enough to keep both of you happy? Are you able to ask DH without it causing an issue what exactly he isn't happy about? Maybe if you knew specifically what is bothering him it would help for BOTH of you to focus on that area on the weekends? I can get why he was miffed that you hosted a party for somone else if he already thinks (for whatever reason) that you aren't keeping up your end at home. Not that I think that is fair or right but I can understand. Our house looks like yours most days but we are both ok with a little bit of clutter. My sisters house looks like a freaking museum because to her it isn't "clean" unless every single thing is put away - maybe he feels the same?
Wife to the man I adore and Mama to DS10, DS9, DS3, DD2, and Baby Girl SAH, Homeschooling, Hobby Farming, SNs SUPER MAMA - Melissa