Re: should i give her more???
I don't think she needs more. I agree with your assessment that if she needed more, she wouldn't stop crying after a few minutes and be fine for 3 hrs and the paci wouldn't satisfy her.
And, her weight sounds normal to me. I have all small kids and they grow slowly. Well...until this 6th baby. He is 11llbs at only 5wks.
Heather SAHM to 6 who are 7 and under, including 2 sets of twins and our last little miracle, a surviving identical twin, born Oct 2012!