Re: Are we stuck in the 1950's???
Lay out your husband’s pj’s, pull the covers back on his side of the bed, and put his favorite book on his pillow so he can relax before going to bed.
I do feel it's important to include the dad in baby care. However, those first 6 weeks are about mom and baby getting a routine down. I was way too overwhelmed to worry about dh's feelings. Or his sexual needs. He just waited until I was ready to fully participate. He understood and was supportive.